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Handling Social Rejection, Mistakes,Hurts & Set backs. An obstacle that prevents many people from improving their social skills and going after the life they want is that they fear REJECTION. They fear being embarrassed in the process of getting turned down. They fear getting the message that THEY'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH. They fear having to feel worse about themselves. They fear making a mistake or experiencing a setback that will bring feelings of discouragement and unworthiness. It's something that everyone struggles with. If you remain overly afraid of rejection your life will stagnate. Too many of the things you need to do to improve your social success have an element of risk to them. Starting conversations with people, expressing your opinions, and inviting people to hang out are just a few. This won't be some unrealistic article that will try to tell you that rejection and mistakes are no big deal and that you can learn to completely get over being bothered by...

I don't know about you, but it can be hard to stay inspired!!. I don't know about you, but it can be hard to stay inspired By this time of year. It's cold outside. It gets dark really early. The holidays are all but over (for a while anyway). Maybe it's just me, but these seemingly simple factors can get me feeling like I'm stuck in a rut. So I've been trying to dream up ways to keep myself staying inspired and motivated. And it's got me thinking about what it means to live an inspired life. I first want to clarify that I'm not talking about living an inspiring life. An inspiring life is pretty lofty, like a hero. I think Steve Jobs led an inspiring life, or Audrey Hepburn or Eleanor Roosevelt. Trying to live an inspiring life puts the focus on others. I'm not sure it's wise to go about life trying to impress or gain approval from others. Instead I think we should focus on ourselves. Try to impress yourself. Try to top your best efforts. Set...

HOW TO BE REAL WITHOUT BEING MEAN The mantra to “get real” has become popular nowadays — and for good reason. We live in a society where images rule and authenticity is reserved for blue jeans and ethnic recipes. We’re trained to polish and parade a false self that we think will garner acceptance and accolades. The isolation and disconnection that’s rampant in our society is based on a disconnection from our own genuine feelings and longings. We’re afraid to show what’s real, including our fears, insecurities, and yearning for love and intimacy. Instead, we may try to project a confident, self-assured, unruffled self that we think will win us friends and gain success. For example, we might conceal our hurt or sadness when our partner is late. Our built-up disappointment or resentment might leak out later over something trivial, which leaves our partner confused. The deeper yearnings of our heart — our desire for love and connection — requires something from us. We need t...

HAPPINESS You already know what to do to increase your happiness. Now get unstuck and do it! You know a zillion things you could do to feel better, to increase your happiness and to get more of what you want, and yet you don’t do them. You want to lose weight but you don’t change what you’re eating. You want to be creative, but you zombie out in front of a computer screen instead. You want a deeper and more fulfilling relationship with your partner, but you avoid talking about what you’re feeling. You, and most of us. Habit. What a blessing and a curse habit is; a well worn road in the brain that requires little attention or effort to execute a behavior. Habits of action and habits of thinking make much of our day automatic and efficient, until you want to make a change. Change requires intention, effort and time. Fear. You may not think you’re fearful — why would you be scared of doing something that’s good for you, that you know will benefit you? — bu...

GODS GIVEN OPPORTUNITIES. Taking advantage of Gods given opportunities, dear God wants us all to be successful. “Eccl 9:11” Time and Chance come together at every person. God has created a time for; BLESSING, INCREASE, LOVE, JOY, PEACE & SOUND HEALTH. He also said he has time for his children to Succeed and become successful. let me encourage you that in your future there is a season of Favor, Peace and Increase all planned out for you by God almighty. Some times in life people miss their time; every person has his/her time for visitation maybe in the past 2, 3, 3, 7, 9, 10, years nothing big has happened to you….. There’s still that still voice saying to you just keep on someday there will!. Let me ask you! Have you in your life at a time got the blessings you were not qualified for? Got that job? Passed that interview? Passed that examination? Got that new contract? Got that award? That I to show you that God has it all planned out for you dear just be fait...

HOW TO HANDLE CRITICISM Every one of us in life at a time face criticism; somebody is talking about us blowing up the events of our past trying to make us feel bad, rejected and also sad. Critics have no time to make us feel loved or wanted. The thing you need to know about them  it’s that it’s been born out of JELOUSY, BAD MIND because you have something they don’t , instead of thanking God and be Happy for you and hoping God will do same or more for them. There’s where jealousy rises or sets in. The only way they sets it free is by talking NO if you get that Job, Test, Contest, Examination, Right lifestyle , Contract etc they will just say YOU,HE,HER is not talented, HE/SHE is just a manipulator he/she can never be good for that lets just watch out how he/she ends in shame etc. For LADIES; If you are single and have lots of friends in your inner cycle and everybody in your circle voices out there dreams and also how their dream husband will be and luckily for you it wo...

STAY PASSIONATE ABOUT LIFE. Too many people has lost flair for life, and enthusiasm but at one time they were so excited about it before, but  maybe due to some life changing situations such as; ACCIDENTS, HARD TIMES, STAGNATIONS, PRESSURES, etc. They just lost its taste. God doesn’t want it that way!! We need to wake up every day and be grateful that we are alive and be happy about the gift of life. You may have the best job, perfect Husband, Wife, Friends, Family in life but sometimes it can get boring I hope u know that?. That is why God told Timothy to keep his flames alive. The Flames or Flame God is talking about here is the passion, zeal, and heartfelt thanksgiving about life. Stay alive about your dreams: Stay above hate and keep your hopes alive it matters to you and God too!! CHANGE YOUR  FOCUS . Stop focusing on what’s wrong with you or your life!!!! Ok let me tell you something in my life I used to focus all my time in the things that’s wro...

7 KEYS TO BECOMING A BETTER YOU? 1, PRESSING FORWARD. 2, BE POSITIVE ABOUT YOURSELF. 3, EMBRACE THE PLACE YOU ARE (BORN, AND BROUGHT UP). 4, DEVELOPE BETTER RELATIONSHIP. 5, DEVELOP YOUR INNER LIFE. 6, STAY PASSIONATE ABOUT YOUR LIFE. 7, DEVELOP BETTER HABITS. PRESSING FORWARD. Frank lyod Wright a famous architect was asked a question “in all your drawings and works which one will you go in for?” and he said my next one! Do you really know what it means? Now let me tell you… It means that some people are just simply living less than there POTENTIALS! If you’re a Teacher, it means you have not taught your best lesson yet, If you’re a Lawyer, it means you have not won your best case yet, If you’re a Pastor it means you have not preached to that Congregation yet. Now its time to go and get your best HOPE  up yet…………..just get laid of low HOPES and surf with high HOPES. Don’t say that you’re not that SMART, INTELLIGENT, CUTE, HANDSOME, TALL, SHORT...