HOW TO HANDLE CRITICISM
Every one of us in life at a time face criticism; somebody
is talking about us blowing up the events of our past trying to make us feel
bad, rejected and also sad. Critics have no time to make us feel loved or
wanted.
The thing you need to know about them it’s that it’s been born out of JELOUSY, BAD
MIND because you have something they don’t , instead of thanking God and be
Happy for you and hoping God will do same or more for them. There’s where jealousy
rises or sets in.
The only way they sets it free is by talking NO if you get
that Job, Test, Contest, Examination, Right lifestyle , Contract etc they will
just say YOU,HE,HER is not talented, HE/SHE is just a manipulator he/she can
never be good for that lets just watch out how he/she ends in shame etc.
For LADIES;
If you are single and have lots of friends in your inner
cycle and everybody in your circle voices out there dreams and also how their
dream husband will be and luckily for you it works out perfectly well for you
no matter how they tend to smile at your face saying girlfriend am happy for
you trust me not all is really is, compares sets in that’s when you will hear
She wears a lot of make ups,
She has no personality,
Her family is not well to do,
She sleeps around etc .
For WORKERS;
some of your co-workers will not happy for you they will say you have a Long leg, you
have a thing for the person in charge.
NOTE:
Jealousy is a thing that is inside the people critizing you
and they need to deal with it in other to grow further in life and if they
don’t they are on the high way to stagnation.
One of the best things I learnt in life I to be happy for
people even if they love me or not that’s why they call me the class clown and
photo freak in school #psychology dept UNIZIK AWKA#.
NOW
HOW TO HANDLE IT .
i)
If people are going around talking about now,
don’t dwell in it and also trys to fight back by also going around telling same
people that’s the person is lying or etc. if you do your peace, joy, strength
will be cut short all you need is just to let it go.
ii)
The best way to fight back or revenge is to……..i
know your thinking to call them up to know what you did to them to deserve that
kind of insult? Even if you do pay them off, what about those that heard of
what they said before? Now if he comes back saying to them he lied people will
say you paid him off right? I know you have settled to know what I have to tell
you…… I got you #smiles hahahahahhaa!!!! What you will do is just to ignore them because maturity
seems to say that you are not levels with them yea yea so if you revenge that
means you stoop so low to their level and remember your mind abilities is
better than theirs.
iii)
Matt 10v14: God said something about it, not
everybody is going to like you not everybody can be your friend or be friends
with you. Remember what he told his apostles that if you get to that city and
they don’t accept you just on your way out dust all the grains of the sands of
that city at their gate and live don’t be revengeful,
It’s a symbolic way to tell the
haters you cannot steal my joy, you may talk about me but am going to so strong
that people you discuss me with will associate you with madness and will
suggest to you to meet me up for psychoanalysis . Don’t drag it with them shake
it off, put your heads up and rise above hate because you’re smarter than them.
NOW LISTEN:
Not everybody will like you, you
as well cannot please everybody and my dear life is too short to keep pleasing
everybody moreover life is too short to keep people like that happy.
We should be Kind, Loving but
don’t spend much time trying to please that is impossible to please.
Bottom
line________Now let me encourage you if you are been criticized or
facing it now that means you are on the right track, because Jesus was.
Don’t let your critics STEAL YOUR
JOY!
Your DESTINEY is not tied to your
critics!!
Don’t let your critics CHANGE WHO
YOU REALLY ARE!!
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