7
KEYS TO BECOMING A BETTER YOU?
1, PRESSING FORWARD.
2, BE POSITIVE ABOUT
YOURSELF.
3, EMBRACE THE PLACE YOU ARE
(BORN, AND BROUGHT UP).
4, DEVELOPE BETTER
RELATIONSHIP.
5, DEVELOP YOUR INNER LIFE.
6, STAY PASSIONATE ABOUT
YOUR LIFE.
7, DEVELOP BETTER HABITS.
PRESSING
FORWARD.
Frank lyod Wright a famous architect was asked a question
“in all your drawings and works which one will you go in for?” and he said my
next one! Do you really know what it means? Now let me tell you…
It means that some people are just simply living less than
there POTENTIALS!
If you’re a Teacher, it means you have not taught your best
lesson yet,
If you’re a Lawyer, it means you have not won your best case
yet,
If you’re a Pastor it means you have not preached to that
Congregation yet.
Now its time to go and get your best HOPE up yet…………..just get laid of low HOPES and
surf with high HOPES.
Don’t say that you’re not that SMART, INTELLIGENT, CUTE, HANDSOME,
TALL, SHORT, and INFERIOR than or to others, now let me tell me……………..
You have the best AMBITION, GIFTS, TALENTS, GOD has given
you and just you alone and nobody will or can take it away from you.
NOTE: the event of your past dosent affects or
change your POTENTIALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why I said so was that actually that I was so mad at myself,
hurt, sick in the mindset and also I always stay alone because each time I
cross people I will start imagining what they were talking when I crossed them
and I will always feel because of my scars they will now be talking about me
and the moment I look back and see them probalily looking at my side I will
conclude that’s am there topic so it made me not to be going out so that people
will not talk or call me up and say sorry “NNA OKWA OKU MERE GI IFE NKA
EEEHH?” trust me it made me feel worse.
But deep me I wana show that all those NDO & SORRYS I don’t need because I
was not sick I was just scars challenged that’s all, so I opened up this blog
to write, educate, inspire, advice, post some life challenging moments and I
know that am more better some dead and forgotten people and loved ones still
alive yea I am. So my dear just jump up and raise your HOPES HIGH trust me give
it a try.
IMPROVE
ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Men are more psychological,
While women are more
emotional.
Men want to know just
the facts only, while women want to know all the facts and the details; women there mostly need is conversation. The
problem we face today in our relationships is this:……….
we try to give
somebody or our lover what we need not
what they need that’s basically it.
There are different ways by which we need love and it’s called
“love languages”. Ok for instance…. Some
people just need conversations, your
time, sentiments, gifts.
Your wife / husband
might be a strong man or woman that just needs flowers or maybe shopping some
little stuffs form him/her will make him or her feel loved.
Some marriages fails or failed because of Quality
Time………..
Some husbands/ wives just need quality time; together
because some husbands are so busy and so held up with jobs and works etc, while
some women and wife are so held up with there jobs and ladies just NOTE: some man nowadays don’t want career
woman they want a wife!!..
When a man tells you
“nothing I do can be good for you…” it simply means that he is crying out for
affirmation.
Women:
You need to look good
even in the house, don’t say he never complains, trust me he feels it. Don’t go
around the house all day like you just got out of the bed. Your husband really
needs to see you as one hot mama. Do your best to stay in shape.
Men:
They are easily moved
by sight.
Always respect your
wife.
One major thing we overlook in our relationships is that we
“the males” always try to make our points, we tend to just make these points
without even communicating our ideas in a meaningful conversation. We need to
engage in meaningful conversations in our homes.
the rest of the three coming soon...........................
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