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It’s a very hard step in life for someone to just come out and write his or her story, but no matter how hard we tend to hide from sharing our stories at our death family we write is a Biography. And probably it might me true or false about the person and the person in question might not be able to re-write the story. I remember when I wanted to start blogging, seen all the websites that were in vogue and there they were only publishing about gossips, gists, lifestyles etc and I didn't know what my blog will be all about, then I said my life looks like a seasonal movie and by the time I pass on I want to be remembered. so I decided to blog and write about my life been it known to you that am not selfish I can shares yours too and all the blog posts you see here at www.kayobum.blogspot.com   are all real and of fixation, fiction or make up as some people may think this is my life I took hold of it when I realized that I cant please everybody and my stories ain't the wors...

v   What is Negative Thoughts? v   Can Negativity be found in out Thoughts? v   How do/can we shut it off? v   Does Negative thoughts has/have Psychological issues attached to it? Does it affect our re-cognition/ mental processes? Negative Thoughts : Can be said to be those thought processes that doesn't grow us or has negativity in it, It can also be said to be the thought process where people tend to find the worse in everything, or reduce there expectation.   Can Negativity be found in our Thoughts: Yes it can be found in our thoughts no matter how we tend to present , shield it and also we can not even out run it because its meant to be there that’s why we are humans not angels. Instances:          i.             I just won a lottery. The worst part is that I cant tell my family and friends because if I did, they’d all want some of the mo...

Been hurt is not an easy thing to go through in life, it hurts a lot and has lots of psychological issues attached to it. ·          Some hurts ends in depression ·          Some hurts can end in mental homes or death as the case may be. Instance: There was a time I visited the mental home long ago, there i found out that a young lady there has not talked to someone for days since her family members brought her there because she was mentally sick, when I tried to check on the history of why she was brought there I found out that her husband to be called off her wedding on the D-day of her wedding. There she deviated from normality to abnormality , she became depressed, became lonesome, stopped talking to people and finally hated men. My note: This was too much for a young psychology student as of then, but with whats going on in the world now I guess this instance I gave happens every other ...

Talking about the mind as the strong room to life? Do you think am right? What do you think is the make up of the mind? Psychologically the mind is a broad or vast topic to talk about , but both the Behavioral, Humanistic & Biologists Psychologist did came to terms that the mind is were the mental processes, thought and consciousness play a vital role. Where do our  taught  comes from? Where do our sensation comes from? What guides our thought processes? Where do  consciousness  comes from? Is this our mind what wakes us up from our sleep n wake cycle? Then if , it’s the mind whats the work of the brain? These questions are some of the questions I have been pondering on, were is the mind situated/located? Is it in the brain or the head? While growing up in life, I have never tried to recall & re- cognize  what I passed through in every  passing  day, because I was so busy with life doing nothing had no stands and I was ...

Sometimes teenagers think that love is better than happiness which in the actual sense the have not tried to differentiate between the two. what is love? a strong feeling of affection. a great interest and pleasure in something. feel deep affection or sexual love for (someone). what is affection? a gentle feeling of fondness or liking. the action or process of affecting or being affected. Now comparing the both, you can now see the differences between the two. I did taught when your loved you feel great, you feel ok am I wrong? But that’s not not the real gist, nowadays youths engage in pre-marital sex and term it ‘LOVE’ and they use itt more often to deceive there preys. Both sex “MALE & FEMALE”. From whats going on in the world now,  I kinda think is this the kind of love mama warned me about? Is this the kind of love our fathers & mothers had way back? Materialistic huh? Did love change with civilization? Is this our generation do...

what do people often think of the term A LONER? A loner  is  a  person who avoids or does not actively seek human interaction. There are many reasons for solitude, intentional or otherwise. thats the dictionary definition of it, but basically there are some terms in it that are actually true but there is still some loners that can be chatting you up, hanging out with you, partying and basically they can be your bff"s or bmf and they are still lone. its a psychological problem that may be due to some life challenging problems or traumas they decided to confined themselves in solitude. when i was small i was a pro-active kid, loved by lots and did lots of drams, went to school representation in pre-school, love doing game start and oga games and with the girls basically had no flair for school band & foot ball in higher pre - school. when i entered high school in class one 2nd term i had the burns accident, after the long stay at the hospital came back like th...

I told my mechanic I wanted to sell my car, then he said WHY? Then I told him I don’t like the design that I want something trendy!. He smiled and said you must be joking am serious her man I am. Then he paused, looking at me he then said………….. ·          Why do you want something trendy? ·          Did you not know that there were trendy ones before u got this one? ·          Do you know how much and efforts you did put into this one? ·          Why waste your efforts? ·          You bought it, messed it up now you did have cleaned up with lots of cash and you want to sell it? ·          Now you want to sell out your whole efforts to someone who wont even pay up to the money you spent working it not to talk about how much you g...