LIFE OF A LONER

what do people often think of the term A LONER?

1. A loner is a person who avoids or does not actively seek human interaction. There are many reasons for solitude, intentional or otherwise.

thats the dictionary definition of it, but basically there are some terms in it that are actually true but there is still some loners that can be chatting you up, hanging out with you, partying and basically they can be your bff"s or bmf and they are still lone.
its a psychological problem that may be due to some life challenging problems or traumas they decided to confined themselves in solitude.

when i was small i was a pro-active kid, loved by lots and did lots of drams, went to school representation in pre-school, love doing game start and oga games and with the girls basically had no flair for school band & foot ball in higher pre - school.
when i entered high school in class one 2nd term i had the burns accident, after the long stay at the hospital came back like the old and things changed the more i try to go closer the farther the go and i always say am cool but really i was not because i seem not to get the actual picture of how things are and how i did look#its not the kosy they used to know.

 4 july 2004

how did the been lone came in?
i guess it all started when i began feeling inferior and i felt i was doomed, like i don't really belong here
i never taught i was good enough i taught i will never be able to express my self my feelings and live my life as well then the cold feelings came in described psychologically as been lone.

life of a loner?

1. so cold.
2. don't really say there mind.
3. always scared of what people will say .
4. scared of themselves too.
5. very thought ful.
6. clingy to anybody that tends to say hello.
7. over reaction .
8. self esteem low.
9. tend to adhere to any situation good or either bad 
10. always wants to be heard .
11. so self reserved .
12. so interesting and fun to be with.
13. but the worst of there outlined problems is that they go out of there own goals to see the host happy. 
14. fighters.
15. they can love without holding back.

 why do people suffer it?

1. loss of loved ones.
2. life threatening challenges.
3. loss of job.
4. accident. 

how can it be solved?

1. given the person reason to live 
2. motivational factors 
3. real promises 
4. been there for him or here 
5. no drugs unless administered by a clinician.

bottom line: using my life as an example i know i did suffered it but thanks to God for the knowledge of psychology and am happy that my mum has been able to help me through as a mum, prof joy eyisi thanks to u mam your a darl, and godwin my new graduate of psychology thanks bro i love u too and my siblings chiso, mmexo, idimma, adaobi i love you all for been there. feel free share your story here.