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LET YOUR STORY DO THE CHANGE.



It’s a very hard step in life for someone to just come out and write his or her story, but no matter how hard we tend to hide from sharing our stories at our death family we write is a Biography.
And probably it might me true or false about the person and the person in question might not be able to re-write the story.
I remember when I wanted to start blogging, seen all the websites that were in vogue and there they were only publishing about gossips, gists, lifestyles etc and I didn't know what my blog will be all about, then I said my life looks like a seasonal movie and by the time I pass on I want to be remembered. so I decided to blog and write about my life been it known to you that am not selfish I can shares yours too and all the blog posts you see here at www.kayobum.blogspot.com 
are all real and of fixation, fiction or make up as some people may think this is my life I took hold of it when I realized that I cant please everybody and my stories ain't the worse my begging might be hell and my ending will definitely be heaven that’s  my new ideology.
Why you scared to share your story?
·         Some people are scared of sharing there stories because they think people will run away from them! Yes people will run away from you and it has happened to me not once, twice and some will still run out tomorrow.
·         Some people think that when they do they will loose love! Yes you will loose that fake love trust me that’s why some relationships, marriages are failing because of secrecy everybody is scared to open up because I don’t want to loose this rich guy or rich woman, my husband or wife. But if you did love that him or her the greatest respect and love you should have shown to him or her is to say bae this is who I am take me or leave me.
·         Some people are scared of what people will say about them! Lol trust me that’s a normal phenomena people must always talk even that your lover when H/She is out with friends they will definitely talk about that there lovers etc. just open my article on when I screamed I had H.I.V , I still see some of those people that was present at the hospital that day.
Advice section:
Story ….. don’t let anybody tell your story make sure you tell your story yourself, because when someone tells you’re your story it will never be authentic like yours and it might be just to tarnish your image and it can also be a lie. Your story is yours to write and say.


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