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LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH BUT HAPPINESS!


Sometimes teenagers think that love is better than happiness which in the actual sense the have not tried to differentiate between the two.



what is love?
a strong feeling of affection.
a great interest and pleasure in something.
feel deep affection or sexual love for (someone).
what is affection?
a gentle feeling of fondness or liking.
the action or process of affecting or being affected.
Now comparing the both, you can now see the differences between the two.
I did taught when your loved you feel great, you feel ok am I wrong?
But that’s not not the real gist, nowadays youths engage in pre-marital sex and term it ‘LOVE’ and they use itt more often to deceive there preys. Both sex “MALE & FEMALE”.
From whats going on in the world now,
 I kinda think is this the kind of love mama warned me about?
Is this the kind of love our fathers & mothers had way back?
Materialistic huh?
Did love change with civilization?
Is this our generation doesn't value love?
This just a naturalistic question I have been asking myself !
v  is love all about money?
v  Is love all about sex?
v  Is love all about cars, fashion, phones etc?
v  Why do people prefer love for none living things than living things?
I kinda talk about this love right? Now let me talk about happiness.
Happiness like I have observed it, is when someone is kinda fulfilled not high on crack, drugs but it comes from God and you feel it within your spirit.
That some couples, have a health relationship is because they are so happy within them selves there with the nature of the love they both proposed to each other they tend to over look each others flaws and when the overlooking is done happiness sets in #not married but I know its true but, I stand to be opposed here!.
Summary: when you are happy you tend to overlook some certain flaws and you will be contented with what you have. Happiness comes from the lord.
Love? It has a lot of concepts and its vast  but when you love truly you will receive it back
Bottom line: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, HAPPINESS SETS YOUR SOUL FREE





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