While growing up, I was a judge of many things like, Gay,
Bi– Sexual, Hermaphrodite, Lesbianism and so much more.
My parents are staunch Christians and Anglican Church member
and later full gospel.
Yes, they put me through the right way to know God and the
rest was up to me to live a godly life and the likes of it.
But as years goes by we tend to learn and un learn some
behaviors weither good or bad, we tend to actualize the story of self and
social conformity.
Growing up we tend to like women that tends to act like guys
(TOM BOY), we then tend to dislike the boys that tend to look or act like a
girl.
Because the society has tend to make us understand that a
man-child is expected to be and act strong in all dealing and all, you as a
man-child are not supposed to be seen as weak or you are not fit to be in the
folk.
It’s culturally accepted that a girl child or lady can call
a fellow lady, HUNNY, BABY, DARLING, MY LOVE, BFF, and the list goes on and on
yeah! As a greeting yeah a woman can spank a fellow girl on Bum Bum, Press on
her Boobs and all yeah its normal.
But a boy/man child is limited to a hand shake, fist bumps,
hug and lastly my guy or this man as greetings.
In addition, if its passes what I mentioned a stern warning
is issued to the bro immediately to let him know we aren’t gay right?
Yes, being a gay or lesbian used to be a psychological
Disorder, yes when I was in school in DSM – IV but later after much protesting
from the LGBT, the Barrack administration made it a sex orientation in DSM –V,
and it has continued from there that Trump could not stop it.
Now the reason why I’m writing this, is not because I’m
supporting or advocating for the LGBT but I’m writing this because some people
tend to change their sexual orientations or sex styles because of some life
stresses they have been through,
Few days back a Burns Survivor my Friend changed his
sexuality to HOMOSEXUALITY and ASS LOVER, and he is strongly advocating for it,
it really?
I tend to think outside the box or critically why the sudden
change of sexual orientation? Was it because of the fact that he might have
faced rejections as a burns victim? Was it that he had traits of homosexuality?
What got him attracted to same sex? Was it upbringing? Was it life fails? Lies?
Cheats? From opposite sex? Or SPIRTUAL?
I still want to know if it was the scars? Never felt loved?
Alternatively, peoples word of mouth, people do talk.
Like then I do remember when they will always tell me I will
never find love hahahahaha,
This period people are going through a lot and basically
it’s financially and emotionally, and some are hospitalized with kidney
failures, heart disease and so much more.
Yes, I’m only human and people have the right to choose the
sex orientation they want or feel safe with in their bodies but I’m only
writing that people go through life changing accidents or forms, let’s be kind
with our words.
Let’s love genuinely and leave when abuses comes in, and to
any burns survivor out there feeling rejected?
Contact me: obumlovely@gmail.com and +2347031810349.
I’m a jobless trained psychologist. Book a counseling
session it will help you ease off and take a right step that’s accepted as a
proper norm in our now society.
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