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KAY ARE YOU HAPPY? True life story POST WARNING: The post you are about to read is a very deep thought processed post and it’s not just a random post. Read this post with all the attention, mental alertness you can ever give to a post. It’s a brief shocker I received from my personal surgeon. Kay are you happy? It’s been a long while since I visited my plastic surgeon, about 14 to 16 years I guess. I called him up and informed I want to see him for a brief chat and health checkup, he obliged and booked me. That morning, it wasn’t conducive for me due to few changes in plan but eventually I made it to his office. At the reception, the nurse on duty asked me to wait but my surgeon overheard me and said, 'Obum, come in.  I'm so sorry none of all these nurses know you, grab a seat let’s get to the reason why you are here!' Doctor: So it’s been years Obum. i remember the last knife I sliced you was when you had in growing toenails, hope it’s healed? Kay: They are all f...

Hey, remember I care about you! No doubts you really care about me? Oh! I forgot to say thank you. I'm so happy that you care about me, I was marveled to get this comment from you! Do you know what care, affection, love, attention is all about? I'm lost, tell me! I'm a psychologist yea, but I also want to learn from you. Yes, for some times I know I was losing intrest in things that used to make me happy. I was always there for you, I made you feel fulfilled despite you were far away from me. I remember you saying one day I will write about you and how you made me feel. Care about me, was that comments you put up on my posts? Really was it? Was that moments you had issues with your finances, psychological, and needed a true person that wouldn’t judge or question you and I gave you all you needed. Was it the care you said you have for me? You know life's good when you can always be true to yourself. I'm not saying you should be true to me. Well, you...

To that one out there. I write to you today, I know you have been waiting for someone to write about you. Yes you are home all day, you  do all the washing, cleaning, tidying up, go shopping and all, yet you don’t feel appreciated and you think you are redeeming yourself from past experiences. You think you have cursed your family or your destiny. Your siblings are far from home, you think you're worse than them. They are  doing better than you, the path you took, course you read seems it cannot find you a footing into the society, now you are giving up. That your ambition has been messed, your visions lost and all your dreams seems far from you. I write to you today, All those learning processes you are going through are not in vain. You think your vision is lost and at the end of each day the door of frustration widens towards your thoughts. You don’t talk much in discussions, you hardly talk In family meetings as well, because you feel you've let yourself and ...

Thank you about your wifely advice to me, but no thanks. I am not open to be ruined by the socialist standards In Psychology, there's what we call 'post purchase psychological behavior A lot of people tend to have it after purchasing an item,I do too . What does this have to do with my post? I want to talk about marrying a wife yet not finding happiness. I have worked in an office where a single young lad would give little advise to lots of married couples coming through to my desk, Some online some offline. A lot of people are married and still alone in the marriage, reason might be a little mistake not caused by them but by their social/environmental factors, of keeping up with the trend. Now let me address this, yes the society tries to build up a certain criteria for people, profession etc and people suffer shock of those things despite that it was the society that brought it. Yes you’re a well trained LAWYER, DOCTOR, ENGINEER, ARCHITECT and what have you and...