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SCARED OF BEING A DAD 1


Now:
 it’s a while, since school hustle, work, job hunting I have not been able to write or publish a blog post am so sorry kay obum blog posts readers, commentators, blog posts sharers and likers.
I have been trying to keep up with the new job of mine which is been at home looking for job, now I see the world in a different point of view, and the summation of all my views is money is hard to come by and so so slow to enter and quick very quick to go and once your done with college your on your own.
I hope you all have forgiven me for not keeping up with you guys…
I have been thinking of something lately,
 I have a very nice heart  but its doing me some how but I don’t know if I am the only one thinking about this or are there so many too hoping someone can talk about it some day, don’t worry if you do am here now and am talking about it, but women this is a man in fears of tomorrow here and he wants to be the best for you and for the promising family he wants with you.
The thing is this,
 the shock of being a dad, yeah I know that we can still recall during our growing up we something's see a nice looking or fine baby or babies we sometimes offer to help the mum by carrying the baby and looking out for him or her in terms of carrying the babies, backing them, jogging them, tickling them and kissing their cheeks and so on and we feel 100% satisfied when they laugh and show their  1 or 2 tooth's/teeth's, and even when they (wee wee) on us its Gods blessings.
Now the shock of being a dad sets in,
You know marriage has lots of variable both internal and external, lol am not a marriage counselor am a guy that is shocked of the office of a dad, I have seen types of dad and at the end of the day I don’t want to be like them.
I cant really place the angle that my fears is coming forward from,
Marriage: traditional and white
House keeping : tv, home app, rents, cars, electric bills etc
Rent payments
Wife's bills: powder, soup, phones, make up kits, shopping (olalalalala)
Children's bills: school fees, notebooks, uniforms, toys, medical check ups hush a lot.
Each time I think about this jez goose pimple will rush on my body like rush hour 4.
This is not funny, am serious to be a man is not hard, easy just imagine money has no value in our present day to day activities.
Now women say men change after marriage, I used to doubt it but now I see.
You see a woman saying he was so sweet when I met him, when he asked me out he was so romantic and angel after marriage all changed what happened to the kay, emeka, chuks that I love eeeeeeeh.
He was not like this, I think he's seeing another woman or lady jeez young woman sign up with a psychotherapist today and see what's going on with your loveable, jucilicious hussy kay or chuks or what ever.
They change because of the office of being a dad and a husband………………
More to come
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