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You matter

A lot of people loose themselves in the process of making others happy and feel loved and wanted too.
Why do some people do do?
Is it just to be accepted? 
Or just to belong? 
Does it have to do with our personalities? 
Or is it because we ain't busy with life stress or work? 

Deep down in me I have missed myself, just trying to belong to the class of people that never wanted to be in public with me or associate me, people that just want to tap from my knowledge and leave me to waste. 
I used to be so prayerful and churchy but I guess the devil did set in and I just started been weak in my pray time and etc.

But I met this caption "YOU MATTER" I started asking myself questions, why care too much for only people that use you? 
Why go out of your way to be with them? 
It's not an easy task but psychologically speaking, if you don't love your self nothing else will work out for you the way you want it to be. 
I don't mean by been obsessed or so. 
But by self love and respect
Note: for you to be who you really are, just love your self, talk lots of selfie, and that good image will flow from you to others not the other way and be proud of who you are, and most importantly..........
My dear LOVE LIFE.
Obumlovely@gmail.com
Location: Awka Awka

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