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For sometime I have been looking out to get into serious relationship and hopefully been a dad and a husband.

This hot afternoon been a Sunday so I decided to relate my intentions to my mum as the only person at home been the first male.
Then she said she has a "certificate" really mum? I asked in my heart I wasn't expecting this, it came like a blow; psychologically speaking I have heard a list of marriage that both couples are educated and it failed.


Now she didn't talk she was just looking at me, and then I said I will support her if she's ready to go back to school besides she didn't take the wheel of her fate it's just her condition and if she's ready to step out I will help.

I know am still your kid but all I need is a wife not a certificate, I do know certificate has a lot of work to do but been in a peaceful marriage is far better.

My thoughts: 
I know you did a whole lot of work to put me through school, but marriage is what you won't tend to choose for me.
I do know certificate is good, what if she can't defend it?
I just want a sister, lady, wife, and mother to my kids in this broken world.
I don't think certificate is the hall mark of good n successful marriage but understanding, care, and trust. 


Dear Kay Obum readers you can as well mail me your views.
Obumlovely@gmail.com

Location: Awka Awka

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