I know that am not the only person that must have
taught of this, knowingly or unknowingly and I know some didn’t want to talk
about it because they might be termed “Paranoid” .
Paranoid …. Am i?
Being a first born is the hardest carrier someone
can go into, I know to some it’s strange, while to some they say carry on you’re
on it.
There’s lots of pains, hustle, buzzes, emotional traumas’,
stress attached to it but they still handle it and pretend to be walking tall.
I know some will say it’s easier for the ladies
while some will say its better for the gents.
Here are some typical sayings about the first born.
·
They inherit their dad’s wealth.
·
They are the first people to take
shares (cooked food, mum bought new clothes, sandals, books, toys etc).
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They take after the Dads heart.
·
They take care of the others
·
They are the next in line after mum
& Dad etc.
I said it right did i? Have you ever tried to
look beyond these points? Just tell yourself the truth!
Do you know how they feel emotionally; I know the
next thing you will say is that the people born in the rich families are…….
·
Lazy because they hope in their dads
wealth?
·
They waste all the money in the house
and put up I don’t care attitude?
·
They are sent abroad to study?
What about those born in the poor families….
·
Street fighters?
·
In some cases becomes extremely rich
and changes there family status?
With the few I mentioned above you can now be
able to flow with me and see from my very point of view.
Now let me narrow it down to the SPIRITUAL.
Have you ever tried to see that sometimes first
born suffer the lots that either of the parents I mean (if any of the parents
did something wrong while growing up and did not clear it and maybe h/she is in
a strong canopy that covered h/her it will now back fire to the first born) a sin
he did know nothing about just a clean soul but h/she suffered the lot.
EMOTIONALLY:
Have you ever taught about this, while your
growing up I don’t know your number, but if dad comes back and see something
wrong and called out you all and h/she didn’t do it and you did because your
small and h/she loves you, h/she will just own up and receive the punishment in
your sake,
How do you feel been a first born and all your
siblings are more intelligent than you?
Some can even beat the hell out of you?
Do all the laundry and cleaning just for the lil
siblings to mess it up again and mum to yell at you from time to time?
What about when everyones grows up and start
insulting you been the first born?
What if you were kept at home like me just to
take care of the house while the other siblings go round and see the world?
And you say you want to leave the house and your
siblings n parents says you can’t take care of yourself? Huh when you take care
of everything?
What personality do you think h/she can have?
To be
continued!........................
So sorry I stormed you with this fresh topic, am
not a writer, just have flairs for using my ideas and thoughts, life’s challenges,
to inspire the youths, olds and younglings. Am a psychology student Unizik .
I know you will think it’s taught in lecture rooms;
nope it’s not and trusts me I don’t even know statistics I fail it and carry it
over. But if you check my blog posts you will see that I did great without some
class room lectures.
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