Been
a first is very tough thing in life:
Now
let me take it out to the COMMUNITY:
Do
you know that if some of the first born suffers rejection because of what their
parents did, without even given the consent to talk or explain h/her self?
The
community tends to agree that h/she is of no difference than the parents.. That
which is bad.
ON
BEHALF OF THE FIRST BORN I WRITE;
I
do stand to be corrected, but sometimes the first born do wish to be the second
because the seat Is so hot, it’s not that easy been there, even in some cases
some first born tends to sacrifice all they have got to make sure that the
others are well taking care of
·
Some might not be educated but will work so hard to pay school
bills for the others
·
Some even leave the village or place of birth to find greener
pastures for the others.
·
Even at that some first born can even be so wicked/ heartless and deceitful
in nature because there sensory processes are far higher than the young-lings’ (natural
intelligence) so the use it against them.
·
Some parents might even make lots of promises to the first born,
and at the end of the day without fulfilling them and the young-lings seems
better, there and then they go into diabolical means.
Just
mentioned few of what it feels like to be a first born, now reader put yourself
in there show.
Let
me ask dear brother/sister did they commit a crime to have come first?
What
if it was you?
Some
do complain a lot I know, they are craving for understanding and some respect.
SOME
KNOWN / UN-KNOWN FACTS ABOUT FIRST BORN’S
You
can look out for it am going to just mention few of them:
·
At the end of the day they look smaller in nature and the young-lings look bigger.
·
In terms of height they are average, but normal.
·
They over look anything you do even at you older age.
·
They know when you lie; still they keep shut and be looking at you.
·
Its 50 – 70% chance that the younger tends to be richer than them,
still some don’t hate while some does.
·
Some don’t talk too much; they just smile and walk away.
·
The financial status of the home never lives there mind.
·
There’s a tendency that 50% of them are hustlers.
You can figure out the rest my dear.
God blessed them with a strong mind and a
good heart to some not all, they can really handle emotional stress and still
be fine.
To all the first born I say may God bless you
all, give you understanding to Sheppard and guide the homes either married
(ladies) or home(gents) and may you live long and be a blessing to your
siblings. Never be diabolical *that your brother/sister cursing, fighting,
jailed, harasses you, just close your
eyes and still see her as that kid/little/pretty thing you carried on your back
or arms , fought for at school, street and shared some Christmas gift with and
you will be better.
Always see things from their point of view
too not only yours (your old fashioned) lol
Let us be one , don’t forget to re-share
(whatsapp,bbm,fb,mails etc)
Bottom
line: (ONYE JI EGO KWAA NNA, NA OBUGHI DI OKPARA GBURU)
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