Skip to main content

Posts

Showing posts from December, 2016

2016 A YEAR OF PAIN, JOY, SADNESS, GREATER HEIGHTS & ACHIEVEMENTS.

2016 A YEAR OF PAIN, JOY, SADNESS, GREATER HEIGHTS & ACHIEVEMENTS. It all started as clear in my mind as this, 31 st of December 2015 I was locked outside of the house that I had to sleep outside the house to welcome 2016, that night I was so mad at my self that why I was locked outside was because I wanted to help a lady re park her car, that night it was so cold that I wore just my short pants and a singlet the cold was too much that night. Lots of houses was filled with fun that kids came out of their paint houses to trow banger and some colorful Christmas eve lights kept me awake all the night. Some thoughts going on in my mind like wow since I have been locked out on new year how will this 2016 be? I asked myself truly I don’t believe in new year resolutions and stuffs I just flow with the life stuffs. After the break I went back to school but I didn’t look beat up, rather I changed how I see things became more of self and I did let a lot of stuffs out of my life...

SCARED OF BEING A DAD 3

                                                                                                                        Some said why am I scared to be a dad are you not smart, intelligent and educated? You can handle marriage issues. But I still kept asking myself what would I do and how do I enter into this? Yesterday on my way back I did visit a friends mum (name-withheld) I brought up this...

SCARED OF BEING A DAD 2

The first post I made being a dad one got a lot of my friends talking to me saying they have accepted my apologies for not being able to be keeping up with them and some commented on the post via my mail saying they are indeed facing such challenges at there respective homes. The truth  is that all the men change after marriage am 100% sure of that, but the change they undergo can be in various forms such as some will tend too love the wife more than ever because they accepted to marry them with their whole heart, some tends to stop smoking for smokers, drinking for drinkers, getting home early for late nighters and some dropping and doing send off to their girlfriends because they have a woman at home, while some will start up doing the opposite. Marriage is loveable, so sweet but like I always say marriage is not a hustle it takes the grace of God to marry and men hate intimidation. But come to think of it… marriage is just a random selection of a man you know nothing about, ...