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Certificate  For sometime I have been looking out to get into serious relationship and hopefully been a dad and a husband. This hot afternoon been a Sunday so I decided to relate my intentions to my mum as the only person at home been the first male. Then she said she has a "certificate" really mum? I asked in my heart I wasn't expecting this, it came like a blow; psychologically speaking I have heard a list of marriage that both couples are educated and it failed. Now she didn't talk she was just looking at me, and then I said I will support her if she's ready to go back to school besides she didn't take the wheel of her fate it's just her condition and if she's ready to step out I will help. I know am still your kid but all I need is a wife not a certificate, I do know certificate has a lot of work to do but been in a peaceful marriage is far better. My thoughts:  I know you did a whole lot of work to put me through school, but marriage is what you w...

TENANT I want to tell you kayobum readers about one of my worst fears which is been a TENANT. TENANT; as may call it yea I don’t wana be one, hush each time I do remember it , hurts like heaven. Today been Sunday 15 November 2015 at 09:01, was just imagining on leaving home like I always crave for like I don’t like this place a d so on, wasn’t born or breed with a gold spoon but am smart and a psychology student irrespective of all the fails I had and dropouts I did had in the schooling system, still I rise, hitting this mums laptop buttons seems so cool cos I have sold mine when I never had the feelings to be heard and I felt I wasn’t enough. Lol seems am talking too much? Mouth shut! Gotta focus yea I have to. lots of people be like a psychologist worst fears been a tenant? Yea it is……… A tenant to life’s struggles, money, lies and hates …….. We always want fame, money etc yet all we get is “distracted, more distracted and distracted” and at the end we tend to ask ourselves wha...

Harmattan It was a hot afternoon today that I felt like some vapors are really going out of my scalp to heaven to fall in the next rainy season. There and then I remembered vividly my growing up in the town called “OGIDI”. There we lived in the archdeacon’s secretariat 8 flats, 1 layer building filled with lots of children from different fathers and mothers in same pri school, my family has the largest number of boys yea 3boys. Try not to get bored! Why? I want to blow your mind! I know most of us still don’t remember these facts about harmattan because we think that we are at the jet age aka ‘computer age’. This the period when children’s pet named ‘BENJI’ is found lol I know some of you do while some don’t! ye yea let me tell you about “BENJI” is a small insect that looks like a beetle ;yam beetle, has blue wing, and most found in the Bahamas’ I mean mini bush down here in the east. You bring it and mount it in that Bahamas’ pollen stem and you take it home as much as you can ...

Now I continue by saying…. I know you have/had taught on what is this guy going to write about again well I just write the truth of what I think it’s really going on. Can you be able to recall growing up you don’t really have to think about anything I mean everything is all covered by mum, dad or both.  Why do growing up have to come with lots of responsibilities? Why does it? Nobody to say hey you do this and hey you don’t do that? It’s you and your life, your choice.  Is this a curse I know that everybody has to live up, grow up and so but at the end face one life situation either good or bad and the end make a meaning out of it. Setting a goal and mostly not everyone seems to accomplish it; some dies some lives some got stuck knowingly or unknowingly. Yet it’s part of growing up. I did think I got my life all planned out, wanted to study engineering and work at oil company yeah (dreams are free but hustle are sold separately). Chemistry, physics lol not my thing....

GROWING UP TO GUILT. Growing up is it a guilt? Is it a form of fear? What is the koko about? Some days back I went to order food at the family restaurant, at their home luckily for me I got there the food was already good to go so I paid, took my orders and left on my way back home I had to walk home because my cars bad so it got to be a long walk home. While walking home it was a bit sunny afternoon and my toe aches a bit but I just had a shout “GOOD MORNING” . I looked at the side it was a little girl should be in 3 – 5 years holding a jerry can of water at the tap shouting good morning sir, I just said thanks and she said welcome. I walked a bit and paused sat under the casted shadow of a tree, looking at her so pretty, energetic and they were playing with the tap water and splashing water on themselves. A whole lot of questions popped on my mind:- What is she thinking? Does she have to shy away from her lover or crush? Does she have to fix her hair buy braz or peruiv? Does ...

The first time I entered an Escalator was on the Bachelorette night of my sisters wedding, I saw chiso as he swinged on it and it carried him up even mmeso too, I was startled for a bit and they said take the stairs or elevator really how can I? Besides am the eldest I have to set standard for you guys I said in my heart of hearts!! As I saw the excalator rolling and folding I decided to take a turn on it but, but at the mall lots of eyes were there(K.f.c's, fast food centers, and lots of shopping arena's there) what if I fall, what if I can't maintain my stand there, really am a novice here,my thoughts were clouded and a little voice said nobody here knows you just take that turn!! Getting close to the excallator my heart was jumping in and out of me really can I? As I matched on it, I was a very hard flat metal bar when I I tried to get what I was on it folded and formed a stair not only a stair but a moving one really chiso and nmeso was at d brim watching me to see if ...